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Nic99
08-07-2009, 07:38 PM
Please can you give your prayers to my dad who is really really poorly. He has Alzheimers and suffered a stroke a few weeks ago and a seizure since, which has set him back so much recently. He is very very weak and he is such a gentle person, who worked in the army, then as a carpenter and loves his family. It is awful to see him like this. Plse pray for him, because I am so worried for him at the moment. My mum has just got over breast cancer and this is so much to bear for her and she stays strong for me and my sis and I would just really appreciate it if some of you would pray for us as a family.

God bless to you, as my dad would say.

VC2
08-07-2009, 07:46 PM
oh nic, so sorry to hear this. I will certainly say a prayer for them

AJandTam
08-07-2009, 07:47 PM
:rose:, prayers and a white candle for your mom and dad.

(((((( Hugs)))))))))

Carol25
08-07-2009, 07:51 PM
Nic99, I am so there with you! Prayers are coming. Peace be with you and all of your family.:wub:

Nic99
08-07-2009, 07:52 PM
Oh thanks it really does mean so much to me. I am so worried about my dad at the moment and I do believe in the power of prayer, so thank you from the bottom of my heart.

IaNsSyAlNuE
08-07-2009, 08:00 PM
(((( Hug))))

And warm thoughts your and your family's way.

So Sorry to hear.

:rose:

Leanne Weich
08-07-2009, 08:03 PM
Just said a prayer for you guys and sent an email to the minister of my church to ask him to add you all to our prayer list. (((many))).

debbadoo
08-07-2009, 08:04 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with your mom and dad. Alzheimer's is an awful disease.

summit
08-07-2009, 08:11 PM
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

SavannahStar
08-07-2009, 08:58 PM
Prayers from me! :rose:

txsage
08-07-2009, 09:04 PM
Peace and Hope!

beespence
08-07-2009, 09:55 PM
Hugging your mum and dad in my heart....

jewel6
08-07-2009, 10:38 PM
Im so sorry! May God bless you!

Citygirl
08-07-2009, 10:50 PM
I am so sad for you Nic..all good thoughts for your daddy and you and the family..and don't forget to take care of you ..

Pat
08-07-2009, 11:25 PM
Alzheimers is such a terrible disease. My MIL was an Alzheimers victim...it was a difficult time in our lives.

I will pray for your Dad and Mother. And all your family.

RootBeer
08-07-2009, 11:31 PM
God Bless you and your family Nic.

Postergeist
08-07-2009, 11:38 PM
my love and prayers from Alabama headed your way Nic, for your dear dad and for strength to your mom as well.

:rose:

redundancy
08-07-2009, 11:41 PM
You have friends here and I'm sure you do at home as well. Often times I think some of us are chosen to be strong and to provide comfort for the ones around us in terrible times. It is difficult but a blessing to be chosen to be that one, I think.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

carterkatt
08-07-2009, 11:48 PM
Nic99,

I am so sorry you and your family are going through this. I lost my father from Alzheimers related illness. Alzheimers is very, very rough. I "lost" my dad long before Dad passed away. He was not himself any more. It broke my heart.

Some of the other posters have suggested soothing music... it was very helpful with Dad. Also, you may see if you can find someone to teach you Reiki massage techniques, if you have not tried that. That seemed calming to Dad also.

My prayers are with you.
k
PS: Here's a story to make you smile. While eating dinner with my parents a few years after Dad had been diagnosed, I was trying to check his mental awareness. I said, "Dad, how many children do you have?" (I'm an only child.) Dad looked at my mom and said, "Jean, how many children do we have?" She told him, "One, just one."

I took Dad's hand and held it and said, "Dad, it's me! I'm your daughter." He looked at me long and hard, and said...."No... you're way too old to be my daughter!" :biggrin: You've gotta smile!

incidentally
08-08-2009, 12:01 AM
Prayers on their way from North Carolina, USA.

tally

Dovey
08-08-2009, 12:49 AM
My prayers are with you and can you also return one for my mom who is 81 and going through breast cancer surgery in Sept. also?

I have worn my cancer braclets every day for years. I do the walk for cancer every year. I make the braclets and ask for donations for the cancer braclets to donate to the ACS.

God Bless and I pray for all those who have cancer.

RootBeer
09-10-2009, 08:21 PM
any updates nic?

Dovey
09-18-2009, 01:09 AM
Here is a recent message I received which I viewed today so I think it was today. I hope it is ok to post it.

My dear Dad passed away in the early hours of this morning and me, my Mum and my Sis were with him. He was really struggling these past few weeks and was beginning to suffer so, and I hope that it was some comfort to him that we were there with him. I miss him already, but I didn't want him to continue suffering as he has and I know that he is with the angels and his mum and dad now.
Nic x

:sad:

:rose:

My heart goes out to you and your family Nic

Jayne
09-18-2009, 02:47 AM
Oh..Nic..I am so so so sorry. I know the pain of losing a parent. I'm glad you were there with him..and what a sense of humour he had.

My prayers are with you and your family..now and onward. I've never really "gotten over" my mother's passing...she lives with me everyday..everything I do, it seems...comforting many times..sad many others. All in all...I believe..that they "stay with us". I wish you peace and understanding and grace, Nic.

:rose:

loving and caring wishes to you...

Jayne

ResJudicata
09-18-2009, 03:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your Dad, Nic. May God bless you, your Mum and your Sis, during this time of sadness.

kitty1182
09-18-2009, 03:47 PM
So sorry Nic...May he rest in peace now...:rose:

ClimbingRose
09-18-2009, 04:01 PM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. He is at peace and will continue to live through each of his children. A great man is a gentle man who freely gives of his heart. You were blessed for the years you had with such a great man. A man who has earned his honor be defending the country we love.

Prayers and thoughts for you and your family

:rose::rose::rose:

Noahs ARK
09-18-2009, 06:19 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. Prayers for you and your family. :rose:

StickyBeak
09-18-2009, 07:09 PM
So sorry to hear of your Dads passing Nic, Peace be with you and your Mom and Sister.

“Death is not extinguishing the light; it is only putting out the lamp because the dawn has come.”
Rabindranath Tagore quotes (Indian Poet,

{Rose:}

Nic99
09-19-2009, 02:29 PM
Thanks to you all for such heart warming replies. It means a lot.

Meridian
09-20-2009, 08:50 AM
:rose::rose::rose:

sofiesmom
09-20-2009, 09:33 AM
Your dad is strong and whole again.

I'm sorry I didn't see your thread earlier. Your description of your dad reminds me of my daddy. I'd be lost without him.

I'm so sorry. :rose::rose::rose:

incidentally
09-20-2009, 11:37 AM
I'm so sorry Nic. You and your mom are in my prayers.