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HANNAH ROSE
07-28-2009, 02:34 PM
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
A-hem_1
07-28-2009, 02:39 PM
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
:rose::crying: I am very sorry for your loss. I agree with your last paragraph.
Again, I am sorry for your loss.
This is such a tragic thing, Hannah Rose. I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your surviving brother.
cassidy
07-28-2009, 02:44 PM
So very sorry for your loss :( :rose:
Bozo2.0
07-28-2009, 02:51 PM
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
(((HUGS)))
So very sorry for this tragedy. I will pray for you and Shane.
:rose:
cookiedog
07-28-2009, 02:59 PM
I am so sorry! You and your brothers are in my prayers. Did the police catch the burglars?
msgatorslayer
07-28-2009, 02:59 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :rose: Have they caught the person/s who did this?
My Dad and his Brother didn't speak for 20 years, after the death of their Mother.
It took a phone call from an Aunt to tell my Dad that his Brother's wife of like, 50 years, had just passed away, for Dad to make a phone call.
He was very hesitant at first. But he bit the bullet and followed through.
They live a county away from one another and since making up, my Dad is down visiting him at least once a month.
I was up in your neck of the woods last week and thought of you.
HANNAH ROSE
07-28-2009, 03:06 PM
I am so sorry! You and your brothers are in my prayers. Did the police catch the burglars?
It's believed to be drug related and there are suspects but no arrests.
Rusty was able to get the mask off one of the men before being shot. Shane was just trying to get money out of his pocket to give to them.
There were three children in the house. Rusty's son, 10 years old, snuck the younger kids out and hid in the woods.
kitty1182
07-28-2009, 03:08 PM
I am so sorry.....:sad:
bearwds
07-28-2009, 03:24 PM
That is just horrible Hannah.
Horrible.
I don't know what else to say.
bearwds
desmom
07-28-2009, 03:25 PM
I am so sorry.
beespence
07-28-2009, 03:30 PM
OMG...so tragic Hanna...I am praying for Shane and thank God the children were unharmed.....I am hugging you in my heart.
CindR
07-28-2009, 03:33 PM
That's awful. I'm very sorry for your loss.
incidentally
07-28-2009, 03:42 PM
I'm so sorry, Hannah. Terrible tragedy.
I just looked it up on a search engine news site and yes, it does appear to be drug related.
Prayers to you and your family. I pray Shane will be alright.
tally
Noahs ARK
07-28-2009, 03:44 PM
Oh Hannah ~ I'm so sorry to hear about your brothers.
What a tragedy. :crying: You will all be in our prayers.
debbadoo
07-28-2009, 03:54 PM
Oh, Hannah. I am SO very sorry to hear of your brother's death. I pray your brother Shane will pull through and be able to ID the thugs that did this. Kudos to your quick thinking nephew for getting himself and the younger children to safety. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. :rose:
Shells2
07-28-2009, 04:17 PM
hannah I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.. how very sad. Those poor children - Omigosh..
Let this be a warning to everyone - you get involved with the drug trade of any kind in any form and it will not end well. Maybe through your brothers horrible experience it may save lives and people considering getting involved will realize that this black market industry is nothing but blood and violence...
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Hannah... This is awful.
Jayne
07-28-2009, 04:24 PM
Oh, Hannah...I'm so so sorry to hear this. I hope Shane will be ok and the kids too. Home invasions aren't always drug related, but if this one was, I hope there will be no more of it - for Shane and the children and you. Prayers to you, Shane, and your family. I hope they find those dastards and put them where the sun doesn't shine..for the rest of their lousy lives.
jmo
J
Mandysmom
07-28-2009, 04:35 PM
Hannah, I'm so very sorry to hear this. My husband is from Melbourne and he has great memories of being a kid and growing up there.
God bless you and your family and yes, if you are estranged from loved ones, try to reach out and make up if at all possible.
:sad:
5boxersmom
07-28-2009, 05:05 PM
I am so sorry Hannah. :rose:
ViennaGal
07-28-2009, 05:30 PM
I'm so sorry Hannah. How horrific for everyone involved. My prayers are with you and your advice is so very true. :rose:
ScoobyDoo
07-28-2009, 05:34 PM
Hannah:
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May God be with you during such a horrible time. I will call my brother tonight, and thank you for such an important reminder to us all.
ExArkie
07-28-2009, 05:48 PM
I wish I had words to comfort; but, all I can say is God Bless you and your family.
Veritas
07-28-2009, 06:21 PM
Prayers for you and your family. My deepest sympathy to you all. :rose:
Postergeist
07-28-2009, 06:35 PM
:sad:
so very sorry for the loss of your brother Hannah.
Praying that Shane will recover from his injuries.
:rose:
SavannahStar
07-28-2009, 06:42 PM
Hannah, I am so sorry to hear this. God be with you and give you strength. You are in my prayers.
:rose:
MoonHarvest
07-28-2009, 07:04 PM
Hannah, I am so very sorry to read of your loss of your brother Rusty.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and Shane. May Shane recover well.
:rose:
Daffodil
07-28-2009, 07:11 PM
Hannah,
Please accept my condolences. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Keep an eye on the children.
Hannah, so sorry to hear about this. :sad:
Good thoughts going out to your brother Shane and you.
(((hugs)))
logbump
07-28-2009, 07:24 PM
So,so very sorry for your loss, Hannah.
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
My heartfelt sympathy, i am so sorry. Your nephew was a very brave boy to take the other children and hide in the woods.
Praying Shane and everyone recovers and gets the help they need. Is the childrens mother in the picture?
Hannah is probably talking to or with family and LE right now, so hope she doesn't mind that i post there has been an arrest.
A 24-year-old man was arrested in Melbourne early this morning on a charge of first-degree murder in connection with a home invasion Friday night that led to the death of one person and critically injured another, the Brevard County Sheriff’s Office said.
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Garrett Amble of Melbourne also faces charges of attempted first-degree felony murder and attempted murder with a firearm in connection with the home invasion homicide at Idlewylde Circle near West Melbourne.
http://www.floridatoday.com/article/20090728/BREAKINGNEWS/90728035/1006/NEWS01/Arrest+made+in+Friday+home+invasion++homicide
Sounds like great police work, hopefully the children will be helped knowing the monster is in prison!
imo
SnowWhite
07-28-2009, 07:58 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve this loss. My closest childhood friend was murdered a few years ago and we hadn't spoken in several years. I never got to say goodbye.
Jayne
07-28-2009, 08:09 PM
this reminds me of the guy on AGT...the "chicken catcher"...I think a wonderful human being (although, yeah, I don't know him at all)...he sang "Tomorrow Never Comes"..and did it even better than Garth Brooks, IMO. The message there is so strong - what Hannah has said..what many of us feel, but many many of us don't really "follow through" on it - we get caught up in the day to day things..worrying about the grocery or rent/mortgate money or arguing/anguishing over homework and chores..and we forget to even tell those we live with how much we love them each day. It may seem like a "routine" thing - but I still try to make sure my kid and I say "I love you" to each other before going to sleep..never go to bed Angry or Upset..because Tomorrow never comes..it's always Today. And, Yesterday - Beatles captured it...Yesterday is Tomorrow's Today - or that's my interpretation.
I'm so sorry Hannah...I'm glad to hear they caught one guy (maybe more to catch?)...
jmo
J
:rose:
HannahRose,
My most sincere condolences are extended to you and your family. I know the pain you are experiencing. I lost a sister, and we were estranged at the time. It pained me to know that we were no longer close at the time of her death. But I loved her all the same, just as you loved your brother, and he loved you. May your good memories of your brother sustain you now. He is at Peace. Bless you, and all those who are feeling this loss. Prayers for your brother, Shane, that he recovers quickly. Bless the children of this family.
Take care of yourself, HannahRose. God is taking care of Rusty, now.
Fondly,
Pat S.
Hannah - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am at a loss for words so I will simply I am sorry for your loss.
May God Bless and Keep you in his hands!
{{{HUGS}}}
BOZGAL2
07-28-2009, 10:09 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Hannah.
My prayers and sympathies are with you and your family. :rose:
Adalena935
07-28-2009, 10:31 PM
My deepest sympathy to you Hannah. You and yours are in my prayers. I'm so thankful the children were spared.
Patriot
07-28-2009, 11:15 PM
I'm very sorry, Hannah. You and your family are in my prayers.
warhorse46
07-28-2009, 11:24 PM
I am very sorry for your loss & pray that your surviving brother heals swiftly.
FoxySly
07-29-2009, 02:19 AM
~
My prayers to all the family :rose:
3 have now been arrested & they're looking for a 4th, don't know if Hannah would want it linked so I won't.
My heart really breaks for those precious Children :sad:
Sly
~
AJandTam
07-29-2009, 06:44 AM
Sorry to hear about your brothers. I hope your one brother pulls though and will be ok. Hope that the two of you can make amends now.
As for the nephew. What a great young man he is. Bless his heart. He is one serious hero here. I'm sad for him though, how traumatic for all of the children to be present during this and lose thier dad.. I hope you can be there for them now. Those babies are going to need you now..
((((((( Hugs)))))))))
mrsmcgoo
07-29-2009, 10:04 AM
Hannah...I am so sorry for you loss.
I pray that God will give you peace and comfort in your time of need. :rose:
aproudmom
07-29-2009, 01:36 PM
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you:crying:
aproudmom
07-29-2009, 01:51 PM
so sad such a young man..and harder when it is one of our posters family members...
http://www.legacy.com/FLORIDATODAY/Obituaries.asp?Page=Notice&PersonID=130547072
Rusty Locke - West Melbourne - Rusty Locke, 34, of West Melbourne, passed away Friday, July 24, 2009. He was the owner of Rustys Automotive in West Melbourne. He moved to Brevard County in 1994 from New York State. Rusty enjoyed working on mud trucks and helping others with car repair. Rusty is survived by his wife Dana, son Austin
wasapi
07-29-2009, 02:54 PM
Hannah - I am speechless. I just wanted to say how very sorry I am.
ChocHollyK
07-29-2009, 03:03 PM
I know that nothing, and especially not words, can alleviate your pain. I pray that time alleviates the devastating horror you and your familiy are having to endure.
I will envision God holding you in the palm of his hand.
DebinNv
07-29-2009, 03:12 PM
This is so tragic...I'm sooo sorry Hannah for your loss. Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
IaNsSyAlNuE
07-29-2009, 08:56 PM
Hanna you are in my thoughts and prayers. I do not know what else to say except that I hope that you and your surviving brother will have a long and fruitful relationship...
For you:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Many hugs your way....
Details
07-29-2009, 08:59 PM
I just cannot imagine going through this - my condolences. I hope your other brother is being well cared for and comes through well - and thank goodness the children were not found.
ruth66
07-29-2009, 09:13 PM
Prayers to you and your family Hannah, so sorry to hear of your loss. May you always remember the fruits of your brother's life and not his tragic death. God be with you.
Ruth :crying:
Meridian
07-29-2009, 09:53 PM
:rose::rose::rose:
Hannah,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. I am lost for words actually. Please know you and your family are in my prayers.
Many blessings to you ....
lilismom
07-30-2009, 12:10 PM
This past Friday my brother Rusty was killed during a home invasion in Melbourne, Florida.
My other brother Shane is in ICU after having been shot three times in the stomach.
Rusty and I lost our mother to breast cancer in 1987 and all we had was each other for the longest time. We ultimately chose dramatically different paths in life and we hadn't spoken in about 5 years.
If anyone here has a loved one that you haven't spoken to because of lifestyle differences, arguments, or reasons that you can't even remember... pick up the phone and call them.
I am very sorry for your loss Hannah. I can't begin to imagine what you and your family are going through after such a tragic event.
Truly wise words though even through your pain and your nephew is one brave boy. I am sure his dad is smiling down on him.
Prayers for a speedy recovery for your other brother.
IMO,
Lilismom
jewel6
07-30-2009, 09:15 PM
Hanna you are in my thoughts and prayers. I do not know what else to say except that I hope that you and your surviving brother will have a long and fruitful relationship...
For you:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Many hugs your way....
I love this ! we read it at my father in laws funeral! Hannah please know that you are not alone! May god guide you in this terrible time! Im so sorry!
you're in my thoughts:rose:
Calla
08-01-2009, 11:10 PM
SO sorry to hear this. You are in my prayers
koawally
08-02-2009, 12:20 PM
Dearest Hannah,
You and your Family are in my thoughts and Prayers :rose:
The love between siblings near or far, is a very strong bond:wub:
God Bless you Friend {{{ BIG HUGS }}}
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things,
we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
and each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
please try to understand,
that an Angel came and called my name,
and took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready,
in heaven far above,
and that I'd have to leave behind,
all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
so much yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible,
that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
and maybe see you smile.
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
aproudmom
08-02-2009, 01:37 PM
HR I was thinking of you and just wanted to say how sorry I am and that I pray someone pays for what they did..
I found this and I hope a the family can at least know someone paid for what they took away...
Blessings
http://www.cfnews13.com/MediaPlayer2/MediaPlayer.htm?video=melbournemurder_072520090756&cat=Local&title=West Melbourne Deadly Shooting
ellegna
08-02-2009, 02:25 PM
I am so very sorry and saddened to learn about your brother.
My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
I wish and pray Shane has a speedy recovery
:rose::rose::rose:
crocdog1
08-02-2009, 03:04 PM
I am very sorry for your loss.
My prayers are with you and yours.
txsage
08-02-2009, 06:12 PM
~~~~~ Peace and Hope~~~~~
Xenam
08-03-2009, 07:10 AM
What a tragic loss.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and Shane.
:rose: RIP Rusty
Xmygrits
08-03-2009, 05:56 PM
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.:rose:
AJandTam
08-04-2009, 12:09 AM
Hi Hannah. Just checking in to see how you are doing and see if there is an update on your brother Shanes condition. Hope he is recovered from the worst of it..
(( Hugs))
HANNAH ROSE
08-05-2009, 01:29 PM
I want to thank everyone for their kind words and well wishes. It's amazing how much it means to have people provide comforting words during a time like this.
Saturday I attending the memorial service for my brother. Approximately 200-250 people were there, squeezed into a little church. I didn't know the majority of them nor did they know me but there was a lot of caring going on in that room and it was very heart warming to see that my brother had touched so many lives.
My other brother is still in critical condition. I cannot release any more information as he is still in protective custody due to one suspect still being at large. I was unable to see him due to a last minute scheduling conflict but my parents will let him know I was there.
My nephew is doing as well as can be expected. The other two children were 4 and 5 and are not related. He is a little hero, though, for certain.
I'll try to provide updates as they come.
Again, thank you all so much.
mrsmcgoo
08-05-2009, 02:38 PM
Hannahrose, thank you for the update.
Lovely that your brother was honoured by so many~~
Hope you and your family are comforted just a bit at this sad time by that feeling of support and caring~~:rose:
AJandTam
08-05-2009, 02:47 PM
I want to thank everyone for their kind words and well wishes. It's amazing how much it means to have people provide comforting words during a time like this.
Saturday I attending the memorial service for my brother. Approximately 200-250 people were there, squeezed into a little church. I didn't know the majority of them nor did they know me but there was a lot of caring going on in that room and it was very heart warming to see that my brother had touched so many lives.
My other brother is still in critical condition. I cannot release any more information as he is still in protective custody due to one suspect still being at large. I was unable to see him due to a last minute scheduling conflict but my parents will let him know I was there.
My nephew is doing as well as can be expected. The other two children were 4 and 5 and are not related. He is a little hero, though, for certain.
I'll try to provide updates as they come.
Again, thank you all so much.
Thank you for the update. I've been thinking of your brother Shane and wondering if he pulled through yet. Still praying he will be ok, and that they catch the other guy.
Your poor parents. Losing one child would just kill me, to lose one and have the other in bad shape, I can't imagine how they must be feeling right now.
Poor little hero, I pray for him the most. This incident will stay w/him for the rest of his life. Give him hugs from us if you can.
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