Thank you.

[tonyGricar]

On behalf of our family and friends, I would like to take a moment to thank all of you who have given so much time and effort on Ray's case. Many of you have personally contacted us, and law enforcement, with various tips and scenarios, and for that your interest is viewed with much gratitude.

Being in the public arena, many things come with the territory, which is why I have placed myself in the position that I have. I can honestly say that until you have been tragically placed in a similar situation, you really can have no idea what it's like. That's not hyperbole, it's just a not-so-simple reality. After my Father's own disappearance, I knew better than most what it is my family would be in for, especially when elevating the case via Ray's political stature. I will forever be indebted to Ray for his assistance and knowledge transfer with regard to dealing with the media and the police. For that reason I put myself into the forefront of dealing with LE, the media, phone line, and email contacts. Since this occurred, I have fielded thousands of phone calls and emails. They've ranged from the heartbreaking to the truly bizarre. With that being said, I can assure you that this also comes with a tremendous personal cost that hits us all. As you all continue your research, please keep this in mind.

I will remain available via the email address on RayGricar.com should anyone care to stay in contact or present new information or tips.

Respectfully,

Tony Gricar
www.RayGricar.com (http://www.raygricar.com)

[sherrijean981]

God Bless you and your family Tony. My prayers and heart are with you.

[slaphappy]

Tony,


My prayers go to you and yours.

[Cinderella]

Tony, I would like to say thank you for answering our questions. I have done many things that have hurt you and I am very sorry for that. I know that you and your family have been put through the mill. Looked at under a microscope and every move made analyzed. I can't imagine what it would be like. First of all trying to do everything that you can from another state, grieving, not having any closure as to what happened. Having people criticize your every move.

There are many people out there that loved Ray in different ways. Feelings run strong. Everyone is frustrated. Ray deserves better. I hope and pray that there is some closure. It seems like the closure is not going to be that good, but God is in the miracle business and I hope and pray for a miracle for all of us.

I pray that some one has the conscious to come forward and state what they know. I hope that you get some very good tips to go on. I don't believe that Ray would intentionally do this to his family. One thing about Ray is that he did love his family.
Years pass too quickly and holidays come and go without any answers. I pray with all of my heart that God works a miracle and Ray is found alive.

Tony, I wish you and your family and PF happy holidays, if that is possible. I am not bowing down to you. We had our disagreements, but I do respect you for what you are willing to put yourself through. I hope that if I turn up missing that I will have someone like you that will persist in finding out what happened to me. The boards are filled with missing people. Until you have been there, you can't comprehend what a family goes through. Every time a new lead comes, you probably get excited just to be disappointed again. No family is perfect and it seems like you have a great family. Keep up the good work and I know that Ray is very proud of you.

Sorry for all the things that I have put you through. I am going to continue asking my questions to people that I meet. I am not giving up. Someday we might get an answer.

Cind.

P.S. If I can be of any assistance, please let me know. I am not set on thinking that a certain person harmed Ray. I am open to the possibilities. I am even open to possibilities that he may still be alive. It seems unlikely, but it is possible. Aslo depression runs in your family and mine, but that doesn't mean that Ray committed suicide.

BTW, I think that J. J. stated that you have a business on line. Could you give me your site address.

[J. J. in Phila]

Tony, thank you.

Yes, there are those of of us that do care and would like to see a resolution.

I few days ago, I said that I have admired what you have done, including answering our questions.

Interestingly, the reason I came to this site was because the site I wanted to join wouldn't except my e-mail provider. I'm glad I have and I wish you success.

I hope this case is resolved, quickly.

J. J.

[Cloudbuster]

Tony,
Im not real good with words but I wish you would stay!!! There was a time I was real unsure of you but it is like you would feel about some of us. I been with you on 2 boards now and I have finally come to understand your way of thinking. Losing you on this board is like losing a part of Ray. That would make this all even worse than it already is!! I know the toll this is taking on you cause I don't even know RG and it has been a toll on my life too. For you that would be 10 times greater!!! I understand your insomnia and Im right with ya on that. I forgot what a real night's sleep is like and I know it's that way for you too. You are Ray's voice and it's a HUGE call so I am asking you to please hang in here. If you need a break then take it but please reconsider and join us. I know Ray is proud of you and loves you very much!!! May God touch you tonight my friend and heal the feelings that are overbearing!!! There are no mistakes in this life, Everything is the way it is suppposed to be even though we don't understand why--for everything there is a reason. We blueprint out our life before we get here and Im sure you can't see yourself asking for this HUGE call, lol but there has to be a reason why. I also don't see you taking your ball and bat and going home lol? Your not a quiter -you just need a break and some fun :) and some space and a huge ignore button lol. May the force be with you and guide you back. cb:rose:

[day2day]

Tony..
I just wanted to thank you for everything you have done both in your own personal search for the truth and for ALL the effort you have put into this board.

I know that you have sacrificed both personally and professionally. And that at times we have ADDED to the heartache and stress that you already have. And for that I am so sorry.

I REALLY hate to see you go. You have offered us so much into the life of your family...

I think posters forget ..that we could find ourselves in your shoes one day..and have our families and innocent childrens info and pics posted all over the web.

I hope that you will reconsider and stay with us...if there is ever ANYTHING this girl can do for you...just say the word. I am here ...


My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family this week. I know this is a tough week for you ...

~hugs
D2D...

[Tree_of_Life]

Sorry to hear you're leaving, but I more than understand your reasons for doing so. I'm sorry we didn't get to meet at the PSU tailgate this year, I was really looking forward to it. Perhaps next year. Hope you'll pop in from time to time to check on things and I'll send you emails with any updates if I think/hear/see anything new. Thank you for all your patience and help.

I do believe that someday the truth will be known. God willing.

I hope you find peace in your life either way.

-TOL

[Serendipitous1]

So quiet............I went in search of a song, especially for LAG & BAJ. I found this....which I think we all could relate to. Five minutes of your time....please.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WK9nt1NF7Nw

[sherrijean981]

Originally posted by Serendipitous1
So quiet............I went in search of a song, especially for LAG & BAJ. I found this....which I think we all could relate to. Five minutes of your time....please.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WK9nt1NF7Nw [/*]

Beautiful!! Amen!

[Tokuen]

I think this thread says a lot — a sentimental journey as it were, worth savoring again before it too becomes lost. Have a good night and may God bless.